"The only way to make real money...
is to work a corporate 9-5" -- says one part of Shanice (a creative entrepreneur) in this real IFS business coaching session.
Shanice has a masters degree in business.
Her parents are pressuring her to figure out her career.
This Tantrika is full of inspiration to grow her Tantra coaching business. So many parts of her know it’s possible to make “real money” as a coach but a part of her doesn’t believe it.
When she tries to focus on logical business plans, her artist parts run for the hills, repulsed by structure, afraid the business stuff is going to squash their freedom.
She’s stuck, going back and forth between feeling inspired and discouraged.
Let’s turn inward and see what’s possible.
In this LIVE IFS business coaching session, we find a part of Shanice who is still back in university. It’s impatient. It wants to put its business skills to good use but feels like it doesn’t have a role in her new spiritual life. The spiritual and artist parts are pushing it into hiding. They don’t like this part of her.
This business school part holds the belief that she still needs to work a 9-5 corporate job. This part is hiding like a moody teenager when we find it.
I guide Shanice as she softens towards it, bringing it out into the light, giving it appreciation. Appreciation is medicine.
Through the IFS process, we build a friendly relationship with this part. It transforms, becoming an eager “sales clerk” who wants to help Shanice build her coaching biz. Shanice leaves the call read to help this part find a new job to do, something that will utilize its skills and help it contribute to the team of parts in a way that doesn’t scare away the artists parts. It’s all about collaboration…how do we lead the parts together as a team that appreciates one another?
Thank you Shanice for letting everyone watch your dive deep.
Love you girl!
love & rainbows,
cha
*If parts of you are holding you back from taking the next step in your business and you’d like to explore how IFS can help you, request a clarity call with me. We’ll chat about what’s going on for you and I’ll explain how we could move forward together in private coaching. :)